{"id":3574,"date":"2018-04-09T09:00:45","date_gmt":"2018-04-09T08:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/?p=3574"},"modified":"2018-04-05T16:10:31","modified_gmt":"2018-04-05T15:10:31","slug":"how-to-write-a-letter-to-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/writing\/letter-writing\/how-to-write-a-letter-to-a-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"How to write a letter to a friend"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_3577\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3577\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3577\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Two-cheerful-charming-young-wo-171744425.jpg\" alt=\"Two cheerful charming young women drinking coffee and talking in cafe\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Two-cheerful-charming-young-wo-171744425.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Two-cheerful-charming-young-wo-171744425-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Two-cheerful-charming-young-wo-171744425-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Two-cheerful-charming-young-wo-171744425-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3577\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Friends<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Writing a letter to a dear friend is like giving them a surprise gift. If you\u2019d like to make someone\u2019s day, this blog post outlines how to write a great letter which is guaranteed to make your friend smile.<\/p>\n<p>There are many reasons you might want to write a letter to a friend \u2014 perhaps you just want to say &#8216;hi&#8217;, you might want to thank them for something they have done recently, or maybe they are not well and you want to cheer them up. \u00a0They might have moved away (or you might), in which case letter writing is the perfect way to catch up until you can see each other again.<\/p>\n<p>So, what do you write in your letter and how do you lay it out? I\u2019ve compiled some top tips below.<\/p>\n<h1>Use nice stationery<\/h1>\n<p>Pretty stationery will make your friend feel extra special. Why not find some themed stationery based on one of your friend\u2019s favourite things? Personally, if I received a letter and envelope decorated in cats, I\u2019d feel really loved (and I&#8217;m sure the postman or woman would love it, too!)<\/p>\n<h1>Date the letter<\/h1>\n<p>Make sure you date your letter, especially if you\u2019re sending it abroad, so your friend knows when you wrote it. This could be important for dating any stories you share with them, and will also be useful in the future if they re-read your letter years down the line.<\/p>\n<h1>Write the letter<\/h1>\n<div id=\"attachment_3576\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3576\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Happy-Woman-Reading-Letter-At-109617107.jpg\" alt=\"Happy young woman reading letter while sitting at home\" width=\"900\" height=\"601\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Happy-Woman-Reading-Letter-At-109617107.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Happy-Woman-Reading-Letter-At-109617107-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Happy-Woman-Reading-Letter-At-109617107-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/bigstock-Happy-Woman-Reading-Letter-At-109617107-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3576\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Write the kind of letter you&#8217;d love to receive<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Now, this is the fun bit! Here are some tips for writing the letter itself:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>For your greeting, I\u2019d recommend \u2018Dear [name]\u2019, followed by a more relaxed greeting, such as \u2018Hi\/Hey\/Hello [nickname]!\u2019<\/li>\n<li>Ask how your friend is and what they\u2019ve been up to \u2014 asking them questions is essential as it shows you are thinking about them, and also gives them something to respond to in their reply.<\/li>\n<li>Tell them what you wrote to tell them \u2014 this could be that you miss them, you\u2019re thinking of them, you hope they get better soon, etc.<\/li>\n<li>If appropriate, share all of your news, stories and gossip with your friend (although you may decide you&#8217;d like to strike a different tone depending upon the situation).<\/li>\n<li>Include any in-jokes the two of you have.<\/li>\n<li>End your letter with a friendly closing line. This will be unique to you and your friendship, but might be something like \u2018I miss you loads\u2019 or \u2018Love you lots\u2019.<\/li>\n<li>Sign off with \u2018Love [name]\u2019 and some kisses, if that\u2019s your thing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h1>Decorate the letter &amp; add some goodies<\/h1>\n<p>This stage isn\u2019t crucial, but if you&#8217;re a creative you might want to decorate your letter with drawings, ink stamps or stickers. Adding in some photos could be a nice touch, alongside anything else you think your friend might like. I often send my pen pals one or two teabags, for example, so they can taste my favourite blends without having to buy a box themselves.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you love writing letters, you might want to get yourself a pen pal. You can find our blog post on where to find a pen pal, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/pen-pals\/find-a-pen-pal\/\">here<\/a>. There&#8217;s also a guide to writing your first pen pal letter, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thepencompany.live\/blog\/pen-pals\/write-first-letter\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Writing a letter to a dear friend is like giving them a surprise gift. If you\u2019d like to make someone\u2019s day, this blog post outlines how to write a great letter which is guaranteed to make your friend smile. 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